I let people assume what they will. To be honest; we're not couples matching pretty disparate specialties not conducive to couples matching but we're matching by geography, so I guess we'll have to wait and see if we're still together after the match: Well I guess you can always ask him for a little clarification etc. I have given up my career to stay with the kids and lonely is most cetainly my new reality.
Marriage is unbelievably amazing and indescribably painful; I have been at it for 28 years with my soul mate. Stopped answering texts and calls, refused to give me my belongings that he moved up to the new place, and not to mention he broke up with me over the phone after all of those years. It's gonna hurt, and it's gonna break her heart, but much less so than waiting until you've both committed to each other and start discussing your future together. I am professor, and he is a surgeon in his first year as an attending.
Typical American girls have the government to make them feel secure. The point is that there are way too many people talking in this thread as if they have some sort of psychic knowledge a stone in a hat, perhaps. That conversation prompted me to find and read through this sub, and there's some seriously disturbing shit here.
This man basically tells you in a simple way within 6 minutes. Totally hated it too. I try to be understanding but I find myself getting so angry. Be open-minded; accept that different people have different beliefs, and that they do not always have to match with yours. We married in early 30's. I am a something male.