Statistics aside, we know that the clitoris is an organ with 8, nerve endings responsible for sexual pleasure—and while penetration can feel awesome, for many people with clits, clitoral stimulation is actually the key to getting off. While you or your partner can stimulate your clit with a couple of good old-fashioned fingers, it never hurts to add a vibrator to the mix. Second, pay attention to settings. The more settings, the better. That way, you get to be in control of intensity. Look for intensity ratings at three or below.
If you're having penetrative sex and you're not getting off, you might be wondering what the heck is wrong. And, really, that would be a shame. Especially because it's actually easier to have a clit orgasm than one from penetrative sex alone. And those legs are a great way to have extra stimulation during penetration. So, if you're officially convinced to give it a go, these are the best sex positions for women because they focus on clitoral stimulation—and, as a result, may just be the best sex positions for orgasm too.
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Skip navigation! Story from Sex. If you're a vagina owner , you're likely aware that your clitoris is a reported " magic button ," which can give you orgasms capable of solving world peace and ending world hunger. Yes, the clit exists — and yes, it can give you earth shattering orgasms — but it's all a little more complicated than that. Much of the clit is actually internal, and the size varies from person to person. Add in differences in what turns you on one person's Idris Elba is another's Kristen Stewart , and knowing how exactly to use that clitoris to achieve orgasms can get confusing. So, whether you consider yourself well-educated in your anatomy , or you're too scared to put a mirror down there to see what's going on, we think all people with clitorises could benefit from some tips on how to utilize that divine part of their anatomy.